Running with Dad

March 30, 2014
Last week marked the 4th anniversary of the Jerusalem Marathon.  The first Jerusalem Marathon was in March 2011.  It was soon after this run that we found out about Dad's illness.  The second one (the only one that I didn't run) was just as I returned home from sitting shiva and I did not have the motivation energy to run in that one.  This past marathon took on new meaning to me for two reasons. 

The first is that I decided to run to benefit an organization which runs a registry of potential donors and recipients of stem cells and bone marrow.  In many cases, these donations allow the recipients to beat certain kinds of cancers. I was involved in the hospital treatment process during my last visits with Dad and understood a bit about the potential treatments and the process of treatment, I feel a connection to the Gift of Life's challenges and its successes.  Even if only one match of a donor to a recipient is found, I will have done my part in extending the life of a given individual.

The second link is that of the runner.  Dad ran and lettered in track at Columbia U. in the 50's and he continued to run even when he was ill.  As I was running in the race and looking for some additional inspiration and a "second wind", thinking of Dad on the track, or on the basketball court or on the touch football field opened up a well of strength that gave me that extra push to the finish line.

Thanks to all of those who helped out in sponsoring me in the race and I hope that my efforts will yield not only the physical benefits that I gain from running, but also perhaps a match for a needy individual who requires a stem cell or bone marrow donation.
 

When the Month of Adar comes in our joy is increased משנכנס אדר, מרבים בשמחה

March 3, 2013

Rabbi Judah said in the name of Rav: Just as when the month of Av comes in, we lessen our joy so when Adar comes in, we increase our joy.  (Bab. Tal. Ta'anit 29a).

Strangely, our family has two deaths occuring on the first day of these two months. 

Grandpa Weisberg's death was on Rosh Hodesh Av, when the sages proclaimed that our joy is lessened.  Dad's day of death was Rosh Hodesh Adar, when the sages say that our joy is increased. 

One can ask whether this is meant as a passive affair, i.e. b...


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Counting a Year

February 5, 2013
It is always hard to accept the fleeting movement of time. We mark our lives by taking note of life events, major moves, births and deaths.  These events shake us and cause us to stand up and take notice the passage of time.  The kids are the quintessential time marker for parents - when they are young, we see them every day, but don't have the perspective to actually see them doing the growing.  Suddenly, at a birthday or school graduation, it dawns on us that the young adults are no longer ...
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